The internet lifestyle is causing stress for families. One example: 76 of parents allow their children to take an internet-connected device to bed, but only 23 percent of parents admit they use software to monitor their children’s activity on the internet.

That’s one of the findings from New Family Dynamics in a Connected World, a global survey of 13,000 people conducted by OnePoll for Intel Security, the security division of Intel that is spinning out as McAfee.

Another finding: About 36 percent of parents have been called out by children for being on their devices during family time.

This study underscores the need for simple ways for parents to manage internet connectivity in their homes — from blocking inappropriate sites to controlling the amount of time users spend on their devices to disconnecting from the internet entirely from time to time.

The survey comes at a time when the smart home and its connected devices are seeing a rise in popularity. In fact, in April 2016 Gartner forecasted that “there will be more than 10.5 billion ‘things’ in homes by 2020.” Intel Security believes that those devices will create a larger potential risk for personal data being compromised. On top of that, it believes internet-connected devices can be harmful to family relationships.

“While there is tremendous excitement for the conveniences that today’s technology brings, we know the weakest link in those devices within a connected home put consumers at risk,” said Gary Davis, chief consumer security evangelist at Intel Security, in a statement. “We must empower parents to actively manage how their families interact with those devices. When the correct security and privacy measures are taken, consumers will feel more protected enabling them to fully enjoy all the benefits of living in a smart home.”

Despite their concern of online risks and living a digitally led lifestyle, parents tend to use older methods to monitor their children’s device usage. 35 percent percent of parents admitted to monitoring their child’s device usage by keeping the device in their possession and only giving it to them when they were around, while only 23 percent admit to using software to monitor activity.

Intel Security found that parents are worried about social predators, and that kids challenge parents for more device time.

Above: Intel Security found that parents are worried about predators and that kids challenge parents about their own device time.

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Eighty percent of parents are concerned about their child potentially interacting with a social predator or cybercriminal online.

Meanwhile, bedtime habits have changed a lot since the introduction of smartphones and tablets: 76 percent of parents allow their child to bring an internet-connected device to bed.

Not only are parents concerned about who their children are interacting with online, they are also monitoring how much time they spend in front of a screen. Forty-eight percent of parents allow their child to have one to two hours of screen time per day, and 20 percent allow their child less than one hour a day.

Unfortunately, parents can’t be there all the time to monitor the device usage. In fact, 34 percent of parents claim they have discovered that their child visited an inappropriate website on their device.

Thirty-two percent of survey participants stated that they have argued with their child about bringing a device to bed. But kids aren’t the only ones who are using devices when they shouldn’t: About 36 percent of parents surveyed also claimed that their child has called them out for being on their device during family time.

But there’s some good news in the report. Parents understand the importance of talking to their children about the potential dangers on the internet, with roughly 85 percent having addressed the risks with their children at some point.

Intel Security has the following tips for parents. It says you should start conversations early. If you start talking about online safety early, it will make your job that much easier when your children get older. If your kids are young, start with simple rules like “don’t open emails from people you don’t know.” You want online safety to be part of normal behavior.

It also pays to set a good example. It’s easy to get caught up spending a lot of time on devices, and kids pick up our habits — both good and bad. Set a positive example by limiting your time on social networks when at home and putting your phone away during dinner and family time.

Intel Security said you should also keep strangers out. Most children have been using devices from an early age, desensitizing them to the potential risks of online behavior. A false sense of security can set in for children, and they could be unknowingly interacting with a social predator or dangerous person posing as a teen (catfishing). This isn’t just on social media networks — it applies to common services such as Uber, Lyft, and Craigslist. Remind kids that anyone can create a profile and to decline friend requests from strangers.

And you should also take control of your home network. The home network is the hub for all of your connected devices. New solutions, such as McAfee Secure Home Platform, help you easily manage and protect devices connected to this network while providing parental controls with permissions that can be tailored to the entire household.

In December 2016, Intel Security commissioned OnePoll to conduct a survey of 13,000 adults (aged 18-55+). Respondents were individuals who use an internet-connected device on a daily basis and are based in the following countries: Australia, Brazil, Canada, France, Germany, India, Italy, Japan, Mexico, Netherlands, Singapore, Spain, U.K., and U.S.

Intel Security found that people aren't spending enough face-to-face time with each other.

Above: Intel Security found that people aren’t spending enough face-to-face time with each other.